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Having a hard time pleasing your woman? Use
these tips and relationship advice for men to
communicate better and make her fall more in
love with you. By Alison Ricard
If there’s one
thing I know
about men, it’s
how
competitive
they are.
I’m sure you’d
agree.
You want to be
the best in
everything
there is, be it
your games,
your work or
your love life.
And that’s one
of the things I
love about men
and their
attitude
towards life.
But then again,
there’s one other really bad trait of men too, and this
one, I absolutely hate!
It’s a man’s attitude to give up when he feels
helpless.
Now all men aren’t the same, and every
circumstance is different.
But when it comes to love, these traits are
highlighted beyond everything else.
[Read: The 15 manly traits of a real thoroughbred
man]
Men and their attitude towards love
Now I can’t paint all men with the same brush, but
this is a subliminal trait of men that crops up every
now and then.
When a man’s happy in love and in a perfect
relationship with a woman *the infatuation period*,
the man goes all out to impress her and woo her.
But as the relationship blossoms and the woman
tries to correct a few flaws of the man, or the couple
have a few fights, the man starts to lose interest in
the relationship.
It’s not that all guys give up on romance easily, but
most guys are convinced that the false stereotype
that women are naggers and men are slackers is
completely true.
You may not realize this, but men and women aren’t
that different really.
Both the sexes want the same things, the same
special moments and the same happily ever after.
[Read: 23 things girls really wish guys knew about a
girl’s mind]
But their approach to love and romance is different.
You want to be the perfect man, don’t you?
Don’t you want to be the best man in the whole world
for your woman?
Don’t you want her to feel lucky and special for
having a guy who’s as awesome as you?
Don’t you want all girls to wish their man was as
wonderful as you, and envy your girlfriend for
snagging such a perfect catch? [Read: How to
become the perfect man using a secret role model]
Impressing your woman and keeping her happy can
be the easiest thing in the world if you’re willing to
keep her interests in mind. To keep your sweetheart
happy, you need to think of the 80-20 rule, that 80
percent of the problems are caused by just 20
percent of the issues.
By using the relationship advice given here, you can
do more than just fix any romantic struggles in your
life. You can actually turn out to be an example of
how a perfect guy really should be! [Read: The 80 20
rule in relationships and how to use them]
Foolproof relationship advice for men
A perfect romance, as corny as it sounds, isn’t
difficult to create or hold on to. It’s the little things
that matter, and that’s all you need. Use these 23
relationship tips and advice and woo your woman,
and make her fall more in love with you with each
passing day!
#1 Communicate. As hard as it may seem to sit
down and talk about feelings now and then, it’s
better than living through a relationship with hidden
resentments and confusions. [Read: The guide to
effective communication in a relationship]
#2 Don’t take your woman for granted. Do you
take your girlfriend or wife for granted in any
manner? Remember, she’s not obligated to do
something for you just because you feel that way.
After all, homemaking is not an exclusive woman’s
job, nor is taking care of you her only priority in life.
#3 Show your appreciation. You know you love
your woman. You know she’s a very important part of
your life. But why do you have a hard time telling her
how you feel every now and then? Learn to
appreciate your woman with sweet words now and
then and her blush will definitely be worth the effort!
[Read: 50 really cute things to say to your girl and
make her blush]
#4 Surprise her often. You do remember how
often you surprised your girl while you were wooing
her, don’t you? Why don’t you surprise your
sweetheart anymore? Is it because you believe she’s
not special anymore or is it because you believe you
don’t need to woo her anymore? Or have you taken
her for granted already?!
#5 Don’t make decisions for her without
asking her. This is something most guys do when
they’re in a committed relationship. No matter how
big your financial role is in the relationship, you need
to remember that you don’t own your partner and
you should never make decisions on your woman’s
behalf without asking her opinion.
#6 Remember the younger ‘you’. It’s easy to
take your woman’s considerate nature for granted,
especially if she’s sweet and caring. Constantly
remind yourself about how eager-to-please you were
at the beginning of the relationship and keep that
feeling alive. [Read: 15 subtle signs you’re a
controlling boyfriend and don’t even know it!]
#7 Don’t disrespect your woman by staring at
other women when she’s around. If you must stare at
someone for any reason, talk about that person with
your woman instead of trying to sneak glances. It’s
way better than ogling at someone behind her back!
#8 Be honest. But don’t be brutally honest. We’re
all rather sensitive when it comes to criticisms, so
learning to sugarcoat your words is always a nicer
way to say a bad thing.
#9 Indulge in romantic gestures. Just because
you’ve won her over doesn’t mean you should stop
wooing her. Do something special frequently *and do
it because you like making your girl smile*. [Read: 25
sweet romantic gestures you can use every day]
#10 Have dreams and work towards it. Women
love a man who has a dream and perseveres towards
it.
#11 Be the best boyfriend around. Amongst
your girlfriend’s group of friends, do you think you’re
the best lover material? Do you treat your woman
and her friends with respect? Don’t hold yourself
back when it comes to expressing love in public or
indulging in a bit of cute PDA now and then.
If you can win the best-boyfriend or best-husband
poll amongst your woman’s friends, your woman will
definitely think you’re a catch worth holding on to!
[Read: 10 tips to be a perfectly happy couple that’s
envied by all]
#12 Be the sex god. A successful relationship has
two important traits, beautiful romance and sizzling
sexual chemistry. If your relationship fails in even
one of these two aspects, the relationship can start to
go downhill. So work out, look your fittest best and
bring out the sex god in you. [Read: How to make
married or long term sex feel like a sexy one night
stand all the time!]
#13 Give her your attention. If you’re in public
with your woman, don’t give someone else more
attention and importance than her *especially
another attractive woman*.
#14 Communication. Guys and girls don’t always
communicate the same way. Learn to listen to your
girl’s point of view and think from her perspective
before jumping to conclusions. The most successful
of relationships and marriages are the ones where
both partners learn to look at things from each
other’s perspectives all the time. [Read: Top 20
reasons for divorce that most couples overlook]
#15 Those big dreams. Help your woman achieve
her dreams without being threatened by her success.
By giving space to each other and helping each other
achieve your full potentials, both of you would feel
more successful and satisfied in life, which would
show in your happy relationship.
#16 Don’t give in to your addictions. Don’t ever
make your woman feel like she’s second best, by
putting your friends or your porn addiction before her
needs. If that ever does happen, you seriously need
to work your priorities out before you start to take
some important things for granted. [Read: How to
stop watching porn and avoid the addiction]
#17 Don’t walk away from an argument.
Remember, the only reason why your partner
confronts you is to clear any confusion and not to
insult you. Fights in a relationship don’t happen to
win points, it happens because one of you is hurting
inside. [Read: 10 tips to fight fair and build a
stronger relationship]
#18 Protect her. As a man, one of the manly traits
you’re expected to have is dependability. Be there for
your woman when she needs you and let her see that
no matter what kind of trouble she’s facing, you’re
always there to support her and help her through.
#19 If your relationship isn’t working, you have
a part to play in the failure too. Instead of blaming
your partner, make an effort to better the
relationship. [Read: 12 subtle signs of a loveless
unhappy relationship]
#20 Respect her. Chivalry is one of the traits that
all gentlemen should know, especially if your
intention is to treat women around you with respect.
Displaying a chivalrous attitude is the perfect way to
show your respect for the women in your life. [Read:
The modern code of chivalry for perfect gentlemen]
#21 Create memories and cherish them. What
is life but a collection of memories? And someday,
many years from now, your memories are all that will
remain to help you cherish your life. Create
memories every now and then, be it snaps clicked
with your cell phone, movie tickets, notes of love or
even small homemade video clips of together
moments.
It’ll help your lover see just how important each day
together means to you, and at the same time, you’ll
have a lot of warm memories to look back on, which
will help both of you realize just how perfect your life
together really is. [Read: 20 ways to make your
girlfriend feel happy all the time]
#22 Don’t cheat on her. People don’t cheat all of a
sudden. It just doesn’t happen *other than a few
exceptions on rare occasions*. Almost always, the
urge to cheat starts slow, with your first few white
lies about flirty conversations with a sexy colleague
and working-late excuses. And then, you end up
distancing yourself from your woman because both
of you feel like there’s nothing in common anymore.
So instead of ruining a perfect romance over a few
silly secrets like flirty conversations, be frank about
it. Flirting with someone else is such a sexual rush
only because it’s taboo and something most couples
don’t talk about with each other. [Read: Why flirting
with someone isn’t cheating even if you’re in a
relationship]
You’re human and of course, it’s natural to find
someone else attractive on the street or at work. By
talking about your flirty conversations with your
lover, she’d understand you better and feel more
secure because you’re being truthful. And most
importantly, once the taboo doesn’t feel so much like
taboo anymore, the excitement of wanting to cheat
will go away too!
#23 Tell her you’re proud of her, and mean it!
You may not realize just how special and important
your woman is, until you lose her. Just look around
you, and visualize your life without this woman
standing by you. To a woman, there’s no greater
feeling than being appreciated for all the things she
does for you. [Read: The 10 traits that matter to be a
perfect boyfriend]
So walk right up to her, give her a hug and a kiss,
and tell her how proud of her you are, and how much
she means to you. You’ll then understand the
importance of these relationship tips and advice!
[Read: 10 romantic ways to say ‘I love you’ without
saying a word!]
Don’t wait for things to get bad in love before
you start using these tips and relationship
advice. Be a man the way he should be, and
treat your woman the way she deserves to be
treated, with love, respect and affection.
We’re trying hard to create better relationships in the
world.
But we can’t do it without YOU!
Did this feature help you better yourself or your
relationship?
You can change someone else’s life too!

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